i totally understand your reaction of wanting to help everyone Crystilyn. However, Nana, I really don’t see this as causing people to start “fen singing off one another”, but rather giving bother donors an opportunity to see who they’re helping AND giving the person receiving the aid a chance to have a voice and face in the midst of a healthcare process that make you feel all alone and lost when you’re out of options.
I speak from personal experience because not to long ago both myself and my daughter dealt with very serious, very long term medical conditions and I won’t bore you with the details but the process of getting help literally bankrupted our family. And we had health insurance for my daughter. A site like this could have made a world of difference for us, both from whatever aid we might have gotten-no matter how little-but even more-MUCH more-the feeling that someone was reaching out who cared in the midst of all consuming illness.
In addition, I had a good friend who later was on another site when she needed heart surgery, called YouCaring.com, where people post their stories and people can donate directly and 100% of the money goes directly to the person needing help. Donors were able to be anonymous or put their name and a supportive message. This site saved her life and it was wonderful because her friends and family found out about it and donated and passed it on to people they knew who donated and it became a beautiful web of people who knew and loved her, or were simply strangers who saw her story on the site and were touched by it and said so. It gave her emotional and financial support she desperately needed.
While this site and the process of choosing someone might make people uncomfortable, I would urge you to see this as a blessing and to know that it truly will affect the persons life. Try to just find someone you connect with and go with them, don’t think too hard about it or you WILL probably get overwhelmed completely by it all, and know that you are making a difference. These people are going through terrible times in their lives and the least we can do is deal with the different feelings this site might bring up in us and if you really are against the site then maybe passing it on to someone else who would like to use it to give to someone I agree would be a great alternative!
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